Body and daily life
Atomic Habits
Change the system, not the goal
Atomic Habits (2018 · James Clear) — Change the system, not the goal.
What actually happened?
In his second year of high school a bat slipped out of a teammate's hands during practice and struck him full in the face, breaking his nose and fracturing his skull and both eye sockets. He had seizures, was flown to a larger hospital and put into a medically induced coma. A year on he was cut from the starting lineup of his school team. What he had at university was not a comeback plan but a set of very small habits held without interruption: sleep at a fixed hour, a tidy room, the gym. In his final year he was named his university's top male athlete.
Goals are shared; systems are not
Every team in the race wants the title, so the goal separates nobody. The marginal return on setting a goal is low and on rebuilding the system is high, because that is where results are produced. It explains why this year I really will so rarely works: it changes the intention, not the process.
Read twelve books this year, against move the charger to the living room and leave a book on the pillow.
Start from identity, not from outcome
Clear's central swap is from I am trying to quit smoking to I am not a smoker. The first fights a craving and costs something every time; the second lets behaviour follow self-description. Every action is a vote for the type of person you wish to become, and enough votes remove the need for willpower.
To start moving, take on I am someone who moves every day. Five minutes still counts as a vote.
Make the good thing cheap and the bad thing expensive
Of the four stages, environment is the most workable. Kit by the bed the night before, phone in another room: changes that cost no willpower and directly alter the price of starting. Far more reliable than cultivating grit, because grit is the thing that runs out.
To use the phone less, delete the app. Reinstalling takes two minutes, and two minutes stops the impulse.
Never miss twice
His practical rule is that missing once is fine and you never miss twice in a row. Once is an accident; twice starts becoming the new normal. It plugs the most common collapse point, the moment you decide that since the streak is broken you may as well stop.
No run today, so tomorrow is compulsory, even ten minutes. What you protect is that this is still live.
How do I use it today?
Take the habit you keep failing at and change two things this week. Name the identity it belongs to rather than the number you want, and make one change to your surroundings so that starting costs less than it did. Then hold one rule for a month: you may miss it once, and you never miss it twice in a row.
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Lines to keep
You do not rise to the level of your goals.
You fall to the level of your systems.
Every action is a vote for the type of person you become.