Raising Good Humans
Aliza Pressman on developmental-psychology parenting, principles traceable to developmental science
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46:02Raising Good Humans
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The cure for picky-eating anxiety: no judgment, no rewards, dessert is just another food
A child's relationship with food does not hinge on whether they ate any particular thing. It hinges on whether the parent sorts food into good and bad, whether dessert gets used as a reward, and whether the parent gives themselves permission to feed according to what the child actually needs. The earlier picky-eating signals are recognized, the easier they are to change.
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Child feedingPicky eating
55:22Raising Good Humans
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Don't Teach Your Kid Empathy; First Let Them See You Listening
Getting kids to disagree well is not a matter of teaching empathy or perspective-taking — it is a matter of proving with words that you are listening; the HEAR framework and the curiosity sandwich can be used immediately.
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Parent-child talkDisagreement