Mind and feeling
Carl Jung
The afternoon has its own programme
Carl Jung (1875–1961 · Zurich) — The afternoon has its own programme.
What actually happened?
The afternoon was not a theory he read about. After the break with Freud in 1913 he resigned his university post, lost his professional standing and spent roughly six years in what he called a confrontation with the unconscious — recording visions and dialogues in the notebooks that became the Red Book, which he kept private and which was not published until 2009. He was thirty-eight when it started. The stages of life essay comes from someone who had already lost the morning's programme and had to find another.
Stalling at forty is the hour, not a fault
The morning's task points outward and its standards come from outside. People stall in midlife not because capacity declined but because they are still running the afternoon on the morning's programme. What was great in the morning will be little at evening.
What you push down comes back out of other people
To become acceptable everyone suppresses something — ambition, laziness, temper, wanting to be seen. It reappears as an inability to tolerate the people who show it. Disproportionate dislike is the signal.
The mask is necessary and it has to come off
Without it you can't deal with the world. The danger is taking it for yourself, and the test comes when it's removed from outside — retirement, redundancy, children leaving. How badly you panic measures how much grew only on the role.
How do I use it today?
If you're doing well and increasingly can't summon anything, ask whether the effort is still answering the morning's question. If that one is largely answered, adding more won't work. And if there is a type of person you can't think about without anger, write down the exact quality — then ask whether you have it and never let it out.
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When the dislike is out of proportion, it isn't only about them.
The mask is necessary. The trouble is taking it for yourself.