Procrastination Isn't a Willpower Problem: You'll Fail With the Same Plan Next Time
Procrastination is delaying despite knowing it's harmful, and about one in five adults does it chronically. Anxiety, distraction, burnout and perfectionism each need different fixes, but they share one premise: change nothing about the plan and nothing about the result changes.
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The definition of procrastination has reluctance buried inside it
Itamar's definition is: we delay something even though we don't intend to delay it, and we know it's bad for us. So "I deliberately decided to do it later and I feel fine about that" is not procrastination. The grey zone is: does it count when you think delaying is good for you but it's actually harmful? His test is "could you have anticipated that this would be better for you." About 20% of adults procrastinate chronically; among students it's 50%. He stresses that procrastination doesn't only happen to people who don't care — people high in conscientiousness, genuinely productive, who truly want to make an impact, procrastinate too.
— Itamar ShatzProcrastination is several types, not one thing
Treating procrastination as a single phenomenon makes two mistakes at once: you fail to see that it happens to people other than students, and you can't deal with it in practice. Because the student who procrastinates from distraction, the executive who procrastinates from burnout, and the artist who procrastinates from perfectionism have different drivers and need different solutions. In his book Itamar distinguishes the anxious type, the pulled-away-by-external-temptation type, the burnout type, and a category he calls zigzaggers — closer to ADHD and impulsivity, switching back and forth between internal rather than external distractions.
— Itamar ShatzAnxiety has two faces: fear of the task or fear of the consequences
The mechanism by which anxiety causes procrastination is: doing this thing hurts, the brain says I don't want to hurt, so you push it away. But anxiety also has an adaptive side — if what you're anxious about isn't the task itself but the consequences of not finishing it, a little anxiety actually pushes you to act. The key variables are intensity and self-efficacy: a little anxiety may motivate you, a lot of anxiety paralyses you no matter what it's aimed at; and if you also believe you're incapable of finishing, anxiety turns into paralysis more easily. Itamar adds one thing: even when anxiety does push you, it's a dangerous source of motivation, because it brings stress and a worse experience along with it.
— Itamar ShatzThe biggest mistake is believing you'll try harder next time
Itamar says the biggest mistake people make when tackling procrastination is falling into the self-control fallacy: believing that next time, if you just try harder and summon more willpower, you'll pull it off. The absurdity is that we watch it fail again and again, and believe it again and again. The reasons include the bias blind spot (being unable to spot your own biases) and the empathy gap (predicting, in a calm state, what you'll do when you're in a hot emotional state). The real harm of this belief is that it offers a superficially minimal silver bullet, which stops you from looking for what actually works. Spencer's addition: change nothing and nothing changes.
— Itamar ShatzDesign for your future self as if they were someone else
Spencer's approach: don't assume that the you of two weeks from now will get it done on willpower — instead ask "for someone a lot like me, what would help them get this done in two weeks?" Set reminders, make social commitments, add rewards. Itamar says this is exactly an illustration of his core claim: procrastination is not a time management problem, and even excellent time management can fail; what you should be doing is distance management. Addressing yourself in the second or third person, or using your name instead of "I", or asking "what advice would I give a friend", all create psychological distance and help you enter wise reasoning, seeing through the situation and routing around your biases.
— Itamar ShatzThe anxious type: decatastrophize, or do it anxious
For the anxious procrastinator, Itamar's first choice is to decatastrophize: catastrophizing is overestimating both the probability that something bad happens and the harm it does to you. For example, "there's a typo in my proposal, so the agent will blacklist me, and tell everyone else to blacklist me too." The method is to press on: how likely is this to happen? If it did happen, how bad would the impact be? If it happened, how would I carry on? Spencer offers an almost opposite strategy: notice that this task makes me anxious, sit inside that feeling, feel it, and then do it anyway — he calls it metacognitive awareness. Itamar files it under the umbrella of mindfulness and self-compassion.
— Itamar ShatzProcrastination is short-term emotional repair, and it reinforces itself
Spencer points out that anxiety generates anxiety: the moment you say "I'm not doing this now", the anxiety usually drops immediately, and you're learning that procrastinating makes you feel better — a reinforcement loop. Doing the opposite can undo it: doing it while anxious functions like an exposure. Itamar says procrastination here is a defence mechanism: because you feel pressure or anxiety about what you should be doing, you push it away to avoid the painful emotion. It makes you feel better in the short term and worse in the long term, because you haven't solved the problem — you've only arranged to face it again and again later, or to face worse consequences.
— Itamar ShatzThe burnout fix is to do less
Itamar admits this is the last thing burnt-out people want to hear: if you're burnt out because you're doing too much, or doing things that drain you, you probably need to do less and take more deliberate care of yourself — concretely, deciding more deliberately what to do and, more importantly, what not to do. He describes a loop: you're used to performing well, burnout makes your performance drop, so you work harder, then you burn out more, and it gets worse and worse. He calls this "borrowing health and productivity from your future self." He also notes that burnout doesn't only come from hours: reasonable hours with high-pressure, meaningless, or otherwise draining tasks will burn you out just the same.
— Itamar ShatzThe correlation between perfectionism and procrastination is near zero
Itamar says this correlation is more contested in the literature than intuition would suggest, because perfectionism isn't a single dimension: some of it is expecting a lot of yourself, some is feeling that others expect a lot of you, some is genuinely wanting to do well, some is fearing mistakes. The fear-of-mistakes kind correlates more strongly with procrastination, while "wanting to do well" actually pushes you to finish on time. Looked at separately, the different types cancel each other out, and combined the correlation is near zero. But he stresses the number carries little information: if you're stuck in the maladaptive side of perfectionism, other people's positive perfectionism won't help you. He also points to a hidden form: revising over and over and never handing it in is also procrastination.
— Itamar ShatzTwo big theories: temporal motivation and emotion regulation
Itamar lays out the two dominant theories of procrastination today. One is Piers Steel's Procrastination Equation, based on temporal motivation theory, coming from behavioural economics: the further away an outcome is, the more we discount it, whether it's the reward for acting or the consequences of delaying; hyperbolic discounting means the biggest drop is between "now" and "the future", while a year from now and a year and a day from now are nearly identical. The other is emotion regulation theory, also called short-term mood repair theory, coming from psychology: it's about "I want to feel good right now", and it uses temporal disjunction to describe the gulf between the present self and the future self. The two reach similar conclusions by different routes.
— Itamar ShatzBoth theories are right, and both are incomplete
Itamar says he believes both, and the newest theories try to merge them into a single framework — for instance the temporal decision model, which tries to put temporal motivation theory and emotion regulation theory into one equation: discounting of future outcomes, self-efficacy and the degree of delay all matter, and so do emotion and the wish to feel good right now. He quotes George Box to make the point that models are never perfect, but current theory already explains a substantial share of behaviour, and merging them fills in a lot of gaps. He also flags an unsolved problem: we keep treating procrastination as a single construct, and once you compress out the richness, effects tend to cancel each other out or get masked.
— Itamar ShatzIn their own words · checked verbatim
Procrastination is when we put something off, even though we don't intend to, and even though we can expect it to be bad for us.
Itamar Shatz1:16
The biggest mistake, in my eyes, that people make when they try to solve procrastination is falling for the self-control fallacy. That's basically the belief that next time we're going to be able to do what we need to if we just try harder.
Itamar Shatz9:25
One of the misconceptions about procrastination is that it's a matter of time management, and we can have excellent time management and still fail because the issues that drive procrastination are not about time management.
Itamar Shatz12:45
procrastination serves as a sort of defense mechanism where we're saying, "I feel stressed or anxious about this thing I should be doing, so I put it off to avoid those painful emotions."
Itamar Shatz21:39
if you're burned out from working too hard on things that are too draining, you probably need to do less.
Itamar Shatz26:39
when we separate them out, we see that there are different types of correlations that essentially cancel each other out.
Itamar Shatz40:31
All models are wrong; some models are useful.
Itamar Shatz52:41
The most important thing is to understand that next time won't be different. If you go into it with the same plan, you're going to do the same things and get the same results
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Figures
| Share of adults who procrastinate chronically | About 20% | 2:16 |
| Share of students who procrastinate chronically | 50% | 2:16 |
Glossary
- self-control fallacy
- The belief that next time you'll manage it if you just try harder and summon more willpower — which stops you from looking for what actually works.
- decatastrophize
- Asking how likely the bad thing is, how bad the impact would be, and how you'd carry on afterwards, to deflate an overestimated fear.
- zigzagger
- Itamar's label for a type of procrastination driven by ADHD and impulsivity, switching constantly between internal distractions.
- temporal motivation theory
- Explains procrastination from behavioural economics: the further away an outcome, the more it's discounted, with the biggest drop between now and the future.
- temptation bundling
- Pairing something you want to do with something you enjoy and that takes no mental effort, to lower how aversive the task feels.
How to listen
For chronic procrastinators who also consider themselves conscientious and productive; also for managers and engineers who want to design anti-procrastination mechanisms for a team or for themselves.
From 31:36 to 34:31, the discussion of arranging your work environment is fairly generic and can be skipped.